Have you ever made the decision to grow your interior design business only to suddenly get hit with a crisis of confidence?
As a copywriter for interior designers, my focus is on helping my clients with the words of their brand. That being the case, you might be surprised to know that I often help them with their mindset too!
Designers tend to seek out my services when they’re going through a big change in their business. Either things haven’t been going the way they want, or they’ve reached a plateau and are ready to level up. In both cases, they’re setting different goals, which means they need to attract a different level of clientele.
In turn, that means they need updated messaging that reflects the new vibe and direction of their business and most importantly, resonates with their new ideal client base.
As we work on updating their messaging, we almost inevitably run into some mindset issues.
You’ve probably heard the saying, “What got you here, won’t get you there,” in reference to the need to change your systems, processes, marketing tactics, etc. in order to get your business to the next level.
But consider this–maybe the mindset that got you here isn’t the mindset that can get you there.
If you want to move your business forward, you growing your mindset.
Since I come across this so often, I’ve noticed a trend of 4 really common mindset traps that tend to hold designers back and keep them stuck.
1. The “I just want to help everyone!” mindset trap
You’re not just a talented interior designer, you’re also a great human. You love helping people in general, and are especially fulfilled when you’ve improved a client’s life by elevating their living spaces.
The better you are at what you do, the more people you’re capable of helping because you know exactly what they need and how to make it happen. The problem is, trying to help everyone you’re capable of helping isn’t necessarily good for your business.
Whenever I see a designer offering every design service under the sun, I know it’s most likely because a) they feel compelled to help everyone and b) they’re afraid that if they turn any potential client away, they won’t make enough money to stay afloat (more on this in a bit!).
There’s a saying in marketing: “If you’re trying to appeal to everyone, you’re appealing to no one.” The principle applies here because as long as you’re trying to help every potential client no matter how small their project, you’re not setting yourself up to attract and help your ideal client who can pave the way for your business to grow.
One telltale symptom I see in designers who are falling prey to this mindset trap is that they’re working constantly but don’t have the profits to show for it. This is also a clear indicator that the business isn’t healthy financially and may not be sustainable.
That’s what makes this mindset trap especially tricky! In your desire to help more people, you could end up running yourself ragged and even losing your business so you’re no longer able to help anyone. I know that sounds awful, but the good news is, the remedy is simple (if not always easy).
First, recognize you’re stuck in this mindset trap and you need to make a change.
Then, instead of offering all the services for all the people, narrow it down to just 2-3 service offerings. Offering too many service options–especially lower priced ones–doesn’t feel elite, refined, or exclusive. Higher level clients will interpret your lengthy service lists to mean that you don’t specialize in larger, full-service projects (aka, you may not be the true design expert they’re looking for). C-suite-level executives don’t list their proficiency in Microsoft Word and Excel on their resumes so why are you listing paint color selection and bookshelf styling on your services page?!
The more you hone in on the few services that bring in the most money while allowing you to use your talents to the fullest, the more you’ll resonate with what your ideal prospects want. Sure, you may lose some of the clients with smaller projects and those who can’t or won’t pay fair rates for the value you bring to the table. But you’re freeing up your project calendar and your energy for bigger, better projects and higher level clients. It can feel scary to make this move but if you don’t change something, nothing will ever change. You can always add a lower level service back into the mix if you really need to.
Here’s another pro-tip: When offering lower-level services, be careful that you aren’t inadvertently giving clients a way around needing your full-service offer. If there’s a cheaper way for them to get the same thing from you, not only are you cannibalizing your full-service offer but you’re also being unfair to your full-service clients.
While the “I just want to help everyone” mindset is full of the best intentions, it’s not healthy for you or your business. Remember that just because you CAN help someone doesn’t mean you SHOULD!
2. The comparison mindset trap
Who among us doesn’t deal with this one at least every now and then?!
“Comparison-itis” is such a common mindset trap to slip into. With other designers’ social media posts constantly in front of you, it’s just too easy to compare yourself to their shiny accomplishments, fancy vacations, and picture-perfect businesses.
But you have to remember that you’re only seeing a highly curated version of their reality–not the whole picture. True story: Once my across-the-street neighbor called over to me from his driveway. I couldn’t hear what he was saying so he walked across to my yard. Then he said, “Hm. Well, I was asking you how you got your grass so green but it actually doesn’t look as green up close.” Literally and figuratively, the grass may seem greener over there, but up close it might look a whole lot like the grass under your own feet!
Here’s the thing–you have to focus on running your own race and ignore what’s happening for other designers around you. Every business grows and blossoms at different times and in different ways. The best way to grow your own is to take actions each day that can actually move it forward–and that doesn’t include making yourself miserable by comparing yourself to others.
Keep in mind that no other designer compares to you because they AREN’T YOU. They don’t have your specific set of talents and skills, your expertise and experience, or your unique perspective and personality. And because you infuse all of that into your creative work and the client experience you provide, what you offer is incomparable too!
At the end of the day, we’re each on our own unique path. Run your own race, work your own plan, and trust that you’re doing exactly what you’re supposed to be doing.
3. The scarcity mindset trap
Oh boy, is this a tough one and I have to admit that it’s a struggle for me.
It’s all about the belief that there’s not enough for you.
Not enough money.
Not enough clients.
Not enough time.
Not enough opportunities to move you forward.
Scarcity mindset involves focusing on what you don’t have and an underlying belief that you’ll never have what you want and need. It can bring with it feelings of fear, desperation, and hopelessness.
I often see this show up in my interior designer clients in the form of being afraid to embrace messaging that speaks to a specific clientele, as mentioned earlier. When you’re operating from a scarcity mindset, you’re willing to take any project that comes along, even if it’s low-paying, high-maintenance, and counterproductive to helping you achieve your goals.
When you recognize you’re stuck in a scarcity mindset, get yourself out of it by focusing on the fact that the devastating scarcity you fear is in your mind and not how things really are. The reality is that there’s plenty of work, money, and time to go around and you are just as worthy of abundance as everyone else!
4. The imposter syndrome mindset trap
Whew! This is a common one! It might even be the most prevalent mindset trap for entrepreneurs and business owners.
I see this all the time in the designers I work with when they’re trying to level up their business and want to attract bigger and better projects.
Saying you specialize in multi-room and whole-home projects when you don’t yet have the portfolio to back it up can feel disingenuous. The same goes for listing an upscale location in your service area when you haven’t had any projects there yet.
But if you want to level up, you have to say exactly what you want to provide and represent yourself as qualified to provide it. The idea is to lead with what you want to attract–not with what you already have (and I can assure you there are ways you can do this that aren’t dishonest and that make sense to your prospects–as long as you don’t let your mindset hold you back!)
The stakes are pretty high here because if you don’t lead with what you want in your messaging, you’ll just keep getting more of the same (low paying, high-maintenance projects that don’t let you grow your business).
The key is to make sure your mindset and your messaging match what you want to attract!
I’ll be honest–for most of us, imposter syndrome never fully goes away. But with practice, you can learn how to face it head on and process through it more quickly each time it comes up.
When you really think about it, all of these mindset traps revolve around the stories we tell ourselves. They’re not rooted in the truth even though they feel completely real and utterly inescapable when we’re in the midst of them. Break free from these traps, and watch your design business hit next-level growth!
When I work with my clients to help them move past these sticking points, not only in their messaging, but also within their own minds, we really start to see some magic happen in their businesses! They start hitting new goals, and attracting the clients they’ve been dreaming about working with.
If this is resonating with where you’re at, you don’t have to figure all of this out alone. I’m here to encourage you and be a cheerleader for your business. I help you dream your dreams even during the times that you can’t quite see them.
You can contact me here to schedule a free discovery call, to see if I may be able to help you with your brand’s messaging and your mindset!